Why is women's indirect communication seen as fair and/or effective communication?

We all communicate indirectly sometimes, but women are way more likely to use this type of ineffective communication. Not all women are this way, but most of them are at least somewhat more indirect than their man in communication. I've heard women say that men just aren't "good at" giving or receiving indirect communication, as if it's something to be proud of. They also say that it would take all the romance out if she had to tell her man what she wants and needs. Ladies, you do realize that most men who are worth your time see this as unfair, right?