Help me plz3?

he said i must follow his word.becoz he is a guy even he doesn't allow me to do M.S.he said that iam earning the what u want u plz become a housewife.i allways say plz change for me and change ur attitude.Basically my life aim is to help needy n poor people.oneday a 8years guy left from home so i took the boy back to his home becoz of that iam not attending for my internal exam.he said dont to those thing i dont like my wife roming on the roads to search a house(iam took the boy to home so ihave search for the house which i dont know the area).after a discussion i promised dont repeat it in future. this is his mentality.i love him vey much so iam going very close to him.what i mean is not totally but kisses etc.i decide either i married him or to live singlely.my problem is i think if i marry him i lost my freedom n life.if not i dont no.